Saturday, May 29, 2010

Signs Of Cheating

These signs of cheating is what you should be aware of if you have suspicions that your partner may be having an affair. Take note of how your partner acts and the things that they do that just doesn't seem right to you. Keep a journal and write down all suspicious behaviors including dates and times.

  1. Cares more about appearance than usual
  2. Suddenly seems happier
  3. Working more or working late hours or going in early
  4. Seems more secretive
  5. Talks on the phone in whispers or leaves the room when on the phone
  6. Takes longer than usual to run simple errands
  7. Goes shopping more often
  8. Buys new or sexier clothes
  9. Leaves the house dressed up
  10. Taking more business trips
  11. Constantly late
  12. Encourages you to visit friends or family alone
  13. Doesn't want car seat or other items belonging to the kids in the car
  14. Leaves the house at odd hours
  15. Has way too many "emergencies" at work or with friends and has to leave
  16. Makes late night phone calls
  17. Spends more time on the computer especially after you've went to bed or before you get up in the morning
  18. Doesn't want you to see the computer screen
  19. Suddenly has new hobbies or interests
  20. Showers as soon as they get home
  21. Loses weight or starts going to the gym to work out
  22. Can't wait to get to work each day (if the affair is with someone from work)
  23. Wants to go to family work functions alone (if the affair is with someone from work)
  24. Has started using pre-paid calling cards or a pre-paid cell phone
  25. Has an excuse for not wearing their wedding ring
  26. A change in your sex life or a change in sexual positions or techniques
  27. A change in your partner's attitude towards you and the kids
  28. Suddenly shows an interest in different kinds of music, clothes, etc...
  29. Staring into space
  30. More withdrawals from the ATM or more money being spent without an explanation
  31. Deletes calls from the caller ID
  32. More hang ups or wrong numbers when you answer the phone
  33. Different smells on their person or clothes
  34. Not hungry at dinnertime
  35. Finding items that you didn't buy for them
  36. Finding items that are not yours
  37. Keeps their cell phone with them at all times and does not want you to see it
  38. Physically distancing themselves from you
  39. Giving you more gifts than usual
  40. Doing their own laundry
  41. Unexplained payments on credit card bills or bank statements
  42. More argumentative towards you and gets angry easier
  43. Is suddenly very interested in your schedule
  44. Spending less time with the family or family activities
  45. Telling lies
  46. Becomes distant
  47. Is becoming harder to reach by phone
  48. Overly defensive
  49. Unexplained scratches or bruises on their skin
  50. Your gut tells you something isn't right

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