Signs Of Cheating

These signs of cheating is what you should be aware of if you have suspicions that your partner may be having an affair. Take note of how your partner acts and the things that they do that just doesn't seem right to you. Keep a journal and write down all suspicious behaviors including dates and times.

1. Cares more about appearance than usual
2. Suddenly seems happier
3. Working more or working late hours or going in early
4. Seems more secretive
5. Talks on the phone in whispers or leaves the room when on the phone
6. Takes longer than usual to run simple errands
7. Goes shopping more often
   
8. Buys new or sexier clothes
9. Leaves the house dressed up
10. Taking more business trips
11. Constantly late
12. Encourages you to visit friends or family alone
13. Doesn't want car seat or other items belonging to the kids in the car
14. Leaves the house at odd hours
15. Has way too many "emergencies" at work or with friends and has to leave
16. Makes late night phone calls
17. Spends more time on the computer especially after you've went to bed or before you get up in the morning
18. Doesn't want you to see the computer screen
19. Suddenly has new hobbies or interests
    
20. Showers as soon as they get home
21. Loses weight or starts going to the gym to work out
22. Can't wait to get to work each day (if the affair is with someone from work)
23. Wants to go to family work functions alone (if the affair is with someone from work)
24. Has started using pre-paid calling cards or a pre-paid cell phone
    
25. Has an excuse for not wearing their wedding ring
26. A change in your sex life or a change in sexual positions or techniques
    
27. A change in your partner's attitude towards you and the kids
28. Suddenly shows an interest in different kinds of music, clothes, etc...
29. Staring into space
30. More withdrawals from the ATM or more money being spent without an explanation
31. Deletes calls from the caller ID
32. More hang ups or wrong numbers when you answer the phone
33. Different smells on their person or clothes
34. Not hungry at dinnertime
35. Finding items that you didn't buy for them
    
36. Finding items that are not yours
37. Keeps their cell phone with them at all times and does not want you to see it
38. Physically distancing themselves from you
39. Giving you more gifts than usual
40. Doing their own laundry
41. Unexplained payments on credit card bills or bank statements
42. More argumentative towards you and gets angry easier
    
43. Is suddenly very interested in your schedule
    
44. Spending less time with the family or family activities
45. Telling lies
    
46. Becomes distant
47. Is becoming harder to reach by phone
48. Overly defensive
49. Unexplained scratches or bruises on their skin
50. Your gut tells you something isn't right
    

Confronting A Cheater

When you suspect that your partner is cheating, the first thing that you want to do is to confront him or her. This is where many people make a bad mistake. You should never confront a cheater until you have proof. Not gut feelings, not simply "cheating signs", but rock solid proof.

If you confront a cheater without the proof that you need, the cheater will most likely deny the affair. This only signals the cheater that you are on to him or her and now they will become even more secretive and harder to catch.

If you have real proof then there will no denying the affair because they have been caught red handed. You must be smarter than the cheater in order to catch them.

On the other hand if you only suspect an affair and there is really nothing going on, your partner may be furious that you are accusing him or her of an affair. You must know for sure to begin with and if so, then you must gather the proof that you need. Once you have the proof, then and only then should you confront your cheating partner.

Discover for yourself if you are being cheated on and if you are, how you can gather the proof that you need before you confront your partner about the affair.

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